April 28, 2014

Trust.

Who? How? Why? For what? Just like that? With a reason? Gradually? Instantly? Never? Forever?
To be able to trust what must one do? Trust your intuition to trust the stranger? Go with the gut ?
Or take it slowly? Wait and watch? Wait for the stranger to prove their worthiness? Wait for the stranger to make a slight mistake and poof goes trust.

Trust issues are overwhelming. Trust is a delicate thread. Well, only if you take it too seriously. Why do some people talk so much about being betrayed every time? Is it because they expect too much out of everyone? Or is it because they bring extreme loyalty from their side?

Some people just know whom to trust and hence they experience very little complication. These people judge instantly. They trust themselves to begin with and things fall into place. Right snap judgments are amazing, however this mostly happens without us really knowing how, therefore it can be faulty.

Some people are hopefuls. They like to give others time because they don't want some sub-conscience stereotype or information get the better of them. But in the process, the trust thread depends entirely on the stranger.

Trust is a crazy affair. Family is supposed to be most trustworthy but we hide things from them that may make them uncomfortable. They do too. Lovers are supposed to trust each other with everything. But when you love, don't you suppress certain likes or dislikes from your partner to make them happy?

Trust makes you feel safe. Trust can give you a good business deal, right answers to your medical problems and most importantly refresh your belief in humanity.

I don't know the dynamics of how, why and whom to trust. But there is one thing I will always remember, it is a quote I read as the thought of the day in school when i was 12.

"It is an equal failing to trust everybody, and to trust nobody. "

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